John Pike had this post, and I found myself smiling and nodding my head. What did happen to all that easy love pre-kids? Now, it is all squeezed into the weekends you don't have the kids, and then you are trying to get in all the errands you hate to run when you do have the kids. Time for each other? Before or after hockey practice, school plays, doctor's visits....And I don't even had the kids! But it has been a learning experience, and John's relation of his experience is very, um....familiar!