Tuesday, March 15, 2005

What Women Want....

The Wiz has discovered some fascinating thoughts on this subject (I'm going to wimp out and send you to his link, where you can find the other links which in turn link each other....just go here and you can figure it out from there). I enjoyed each woman's thoughts on this topic. I may have found myself some more blogs to enjoy! And for the heck of it....I think every woman thinks she wants something different, something unique. And perhaps, some do. I tend to think it frequently boils down to this: Have you ever been to Wal-Mart, around 10 or 11 at night, when you think it is safe to go without ending up in insane lines and screaming children running rampant....and as you head down that wide aisle past the toiletries, or pass by the dark aisles of DVDs and VHS selections, or stood in the line-you-though-you-were-avoiding that is the only one open, and you see that couple: she is tired, and leaning against his arm. Their fingers are linked together, hanging loosely. He leans down to point out an impulse sale item or a headline from a magazine in the rack, something that clearly has meaning between them, and they both chuckle. They are completely comfortable with each other, and could probably spend all night standing at the register as long as they are with each other. That is what I think most of us look for....someone with whom we can share the mundane things in life, like trips to Wal-Mart, and find them the most enjoyable experience simply because we are with the one we love. That comfort, that lack of argument or frustration, just utter relaxation and security is priceless, in my book anyway.