Yet another stolen link from Acidman.... This post says it all. As much as women frustrate the hell out of me, and I'm convinced God screwed up the final work order when I was created, this is how it is. We are obsessive creatures, and unless we are channeled into different values (read: brainwashed and re-programmed by force), all we care about is the way we look and what others think of us, especially the opposite sex. For many of the female persuasion, that changes as we grow up, but for others, it stays the same. It is sad, and for daughters without fathers who play an active role, it is even worse. God help us.